Healing Through Acceptance
Healing Through Acceptance
Marc Senator | Aug. 31, 2019
What if our very design as humans was to come into this world as pure innocent beings and then to lose this perceived wholeness so that we can find it again? What if the programs of separation or inadequacy are all stored in our ancestry or DNA and are expressed between gestation and early childhood, the apparent loss of pieces of ourselves setting up the template for our evolution. What if, in essence we are doing the work of our ancestors by weathering the crises and transcending this perceived lack of wholeness or lack of love.
What if the time was right to face a recurring trauma, helplessness, conflict, heartbreak, fear, disappointment or frustration - that same pattern that keeps showing up time and time again so it does not hold the same power over us?
What if we were ready - emotionally resilient enough to receive the lesson that awaits? This time we were aware enough to realise we have the choice to do it differently. We have the choice to breathe, to feel and to learn rather than fight, run or freeze. To let it be...
What if in this moment, something in our psyche has decided it would be more beneficial to accept and let go rather than to hold on and fight? The moment the realisation that we have a choice arises - a choice to stop blaming or fighting the external world, another person, our family, society, God or whatever - is the moment that life may never be the same again.
At this point, maybe we crack open - we grieve or yell or forgive or draw a line in the sand to trust ourselves enough to walk towards the perceived adversity. We move from a state of survival and into a state of flow. Rather than avoid and create friction - the precursor to inflammation and dis-ease - we soften and "lean in", and as a result we expand and grow from the experience. A freedom and a sense of liberation often results - a relief that there is in fact nothing wrong with us. We become empowered by our pain and our emotions and the age-old wound can finally heal. When we step out of victim consciousness and into accountability and acceptance, we are ready to move on and the resulting sense of empowerment brings new opportunities.
Those that "break open", or as the Hindus say "burn in the fire of it", (sometimes as a result of letting things be, and sometimes out of necessity), ultimately break the chain in the family line and the next generation often becomes free of the burden. This can also provide the impetus to serve humanity. Many of the world's most influential people took their pain, their anger, their grief or their sense of powerlessness and used it to create great change.
This is the essence of all therapy and healing - to assist people to come out of resistance and survival and into expansion and flow. With this psychological letting go process, ultimately the physical body will let go too. A release of pressure and "friction" in the body results in a reduction of inflammation and often triggers a miraculous reversal of imbalance and dis-ease. The healing process is taken to the next level.
Marc provides one-on-one consultations both online and in person to help guide you through emotional trauma, recurring patterns, limiting beliefs and the associated physical signs and symptoms. Contact Marc for your free 15 minute consultation.